Have any of you ever been told this and had to chuckle about it to an extent?

I'm a world of warcraft player and an officer in the guild I belong to. One of my guildies recently told me that I was nice and it made me laugh a little and made me think of how people can appear differently to different beholders.

My character is a paladin thus I perform either the roll of tank or healer during raids two jobs most avoid. I'm also a Black Smith and will at times make items for guild members for free and help them get their characters geared up. I tend to help those players who are more timid and need some aid such as a shaman healer we recently recruited.

She needed new healing gear as what she had was weak. So me and a few of the other officers took her through some dungeons to help her gear up. Dungeons that she had no real business being in but well she had an over geared tank with her and damage dealers who are so over geared they killed most bosses before she had time to cast 5 heals.

Yet those people who were kindly helping their guildie get new gear are also some of the most bastardly player killers in our guild if not the worse and that includes me. I've stayed around the same zone and killed people trying to quest there in excess of seven times such that they felt the need to create a new character of the same faction as mine just to fuss at me.

That's what really strikes me as humerous though. The people who tend to be the kindest most helpful and patient to their allies are also the most active player killers in the entire guild. We're the ones that will go out and kill a member of the opposing faction just because they happened to be fishing in the wrong area and throw people off cliffs to cause them to take durability damage and force a repair bill.

I guess how nice someone is really depends on what side of the fense you're standing on.